Sunday Soul Food- GOODNESS

What a different experience it is when you go through the day HONESTLY paying attention to how you are treating others… in every single encounter.  Looking more closely at how the reality you find yourself in might be perceived by those around you, and less closely at your own perception.  Naturally, this is challenging – as we are viewing the world from our own two eyes.  I woke up and read this quote today:

“Goodness is about character – integrity, honesty, kindness, generosity, moral courage, and the like. More than anything else, it is about how we treat other people”

After doing so, I decided I would spend this day strengthening my goodness.   It really doesn’t take a whole lot to turn an ordinary day into an EXTRAordinary one.. all we have to do is slow down, and open our eyes and ears wide – so we can see and hear all the opportunities we have to really help out.

Something I was reminded of a lot today – CHERISHING others is key.  It brings out the best in them.  In any situation or in any person it is easy to find something to complain about, but what the heck good is that going to do?  What we focus on expands, so perhaps we can ask ourselves… what do I want to encourage in this life? the BEST or the WORST?



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Calcium! You gettin’ yours?

It is recommended that the average adult consume about 1,000 mg of Calcium per day. Women older 50 and men over 70 should consume 1200 mg. Why is this so important think about?

Calcium is needed for vital life processes (that support bone health, heart health, proper nerve and muscle function). Unfortunately, we naturally loose this mineral each day through our skin, hair, nails, sweat, and excretions. Because the body cannot produce calcium on its own, we must consume adequate amounts through food sources!

Taking in calcium without ensuring absorption won’t do the trick. It is essential to also take in other vitamins and minerals that are needed to properly absorb calcium.  These include: vitamins A, C, D, K and minerals magnesium and phosphorus.

Vitamin D:
We can get it from the sun, but chlorophyll acts as ‘stored sunshine’ because it will perform like vitamin D in the body to help with calcium absorption  If you are consistently inside, consider taking a liquid chlorophyll or greens supplement.  When outside,  know that your pores must be open (sweating) to retain vitamin D from the sun. Vitamin D transports calcium into the bone, helps rebuild the epithelial cells in the intestinal tract and is crucial in avoiding depression.

Magnesium stimulates a hormone that increases calcium in the bones and keeps it from being absorbed in the soft tissues (this is what happens in several types of arthritis).  A magnesium rich diet in conjunction with calcium intake might be enough to cure forms of arthritis and help keep bones dense.

Magnesium Rich Foods:

Dried seaweeds, beans (black, mung and lima), buckwheat, millet rye, rice, all chlorophyll foods, high quality chocolate.

                                                               Calcium Rich Foods:
Green Leafy Vegetables:
Collard Greens, Spinach, Turnip Greens, Broccoli, Beet Greens, Bok Choy, Mustard Greens
Dandelion, Parsley, Watercress, Barley Grass, Wheat Grass

Almonds, Hazelnuts, Brazil Nuts, Sunflower Seeds, Sesame Seeds

Sardines, Salmon, Oysters

Sea Vegetables:
Kombu, Hijiki, Oysters, Wakame, Agar Agar

Tempeh, Garbanzo beans, Black Beans, Navy and White Beans, Pinto Beans

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Physical digestion begins in your mouth. Your saliva contains digestive enzymes that begin to break down what you eat, helping to prepare your food into something your body can absorb (not just swallow!). The more thoroughly you chew your food, the more likely you are to achieve maximum absorption of all its vitamins and minerals.
Saliva not only assists in the digestion of carbohydrates, but it also makes food more alkaline, which reduces bloating and gas.

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Like any good habit, proper chewing takes practice. If you are new to the idea of slow and mindful eating, start with the two tips below. Remember, big changes have small beginnings.

1. Chew each bite 20-30 times before swallowing
2. Put your utensils down between bites to slow down.

Bonus Tip:
Become aware of the conversations you are holding while eating, aim towards using language and words that calm you and those around the table down. We want to be in “REST AND DIGEST”, not “FIGHT OR FLIGHT” mode when we eat. If you are feeling stressed out during a meal, pause for a moment and focus on your breathing. See if perhaps you can take several abdominal breaths to help down regulate your nervous system into ‘chill mode’.

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Less – More


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Speak Less – Listen More

Say Less – Do More

Complain Less – Work More

Worry LessTrust More

Ride Less – Walk More

Watch LessCreate More

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Eat Less – Chew More
Yell Less – Laugh More
Start Less – Finish More
Correct Less – Prevent More
Blame Less – Forgive More
Argue Less – Embrace More
Sit Less – Dance More
Compete Less – Cooperate More
Take Less – Give More
Frown Less – Smile More
Have Less – Be More
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My Goodness! I just logged on to the Institute of Integrative Nutrition’s new portal as an alumni and my jaw dropped when I saw the number of ‘diet plans’ out there.  Phew, enough to leave the head spinning. It has inspired me to write this blog today.   I’m coining yet another diet term, but it’s intention is to simplify and narrow the focus for anyone trying to figure out a better nutrition plan for themselves.  The KISS Diet (aka keep it simple stupid) incorporates 9 tips on how to instantly make healthier choices. I will post them in 3’s as to not put too much on your plate (pun intended :)) at once.  My hope is that at least 1 resonates with you and that you can implement that pointer today.  Because if not now, when?


1. WATER.  


Thirst often masks itself as hunger.  Are you able to distinguish between the two?  If you have eaten an adequate meal within the past 3 hours and get hit with a hunger pang, there is a good chance you are dehydrated.  Try drinking a glass of water and see how you feel in 5 minutes.

Are you drinking enough water throughout the day?  Rule of thumb: 1L of water per 50lbs of bodyweight per day.  So, if you weigh 150 lbs you would aim for 3L of water per day.  Pictured here is a bottled water that is .5L, SIX of these would be 3 liters.  That gives you a good frame of reference.



How’s the quality of your water? I used to drown my body with water and would still feel dehydrated.  It was because my water was lacking trace minerals.  Nowadays we have reverse osmosis which keeps our water ‘clean’, but inherently strips it of good minerals as well.  If you aren’t drinking mineral water, a good idea is to put a drop of trace minerals into your water 1-2x per week.  This will ensure that the H20 goes not only into your body, but into your cells.  The minerals are what help transport water into your cells where they also activate enzymes, which are the basis of every biological process in the body, from digestion to hormone secretion to cognition.  You can buy trace minerals at a very reasonable price in the vitamins & supplements section of a whole foods store or online. 

Extra tip: Add a pinch of Sea Salt!  Sea salt contains more than 84 minerals and nutrients that our body needs on a daily basis. It has been used throughout history for achieving and maintaining optimum health. Just a pinch of *sea salt in your water glass will blast these minerals and nutrients into your body.  Your thirst is satisfied longer because the mineral content holds more of the water within your body.

*THIS IS REAL SALT!!                                        THIS IS NOT!!


  1.  CROWD OUT RATHER THAN DEPRIVE.  Rather than focusing on what you ‘shouldn’t have’, focus on eating all the delicious, natural foods that are packed with minerals to keep your body healthy and that make weight loss easy.  The less that happens to the food from the time it is pulled from the earth until it gets onto your plate, the better.  Not only does eating foods in their natural state ensure you are getting all the health benefits, but it also keeps the caloric density of your meals in check.  For instance, a half cup of raisins contains approximately 250 calories, while the same serving of grapes contains only 30 calories. Simply put, LESS processed and MORE natural.       






Basic Tip: Take time to eat.  Chew your food more. Enjoy the REAL food at the table (friends and family)

We can barely keep up with ourselves these days and that applies to the way we eat as well.  It is no wonder between 25 and 45 million Americans (10-15% of our population!) have Irritable Bowel Syndrome.  HOW you eat is just as impactful on your body as WHAT you eat.  We should be in rest and digest mode rather than fight or flight mode when we are feeding ourselves.  Are you sitting down with friends and family at your meals, or eating in a rush on your way to work?

How well are you chewing your food?  Often we forget that one of our body’s main sites of digestion is the oral cavity (mouth).  Our salivary glands secrete an array of enzymes and substances that aid in digestion and also disinfection.  Chew your food well!  This will not only help to pull the maximum nutritional benefits from our food, but will also result in proper satiety.  I know when I eat too fast, I end up eating way more than my belly needed!



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Day 100 – Task Complete!


Today’s first for my “one new thing a day for 100 days” new year’s resolution was to put a message in a bottle (glass, not plastic of course!) and set it to sea from seacliff beach. I trust it will land in the right hands..

Wow. Day ONE HUNDRED!! Time flies when you’re focused on a task at hand.  I had an afternoon break before seeing my 5pm client and I took a moment to reflect on the past 2400 hours.  700 of them I was in dreamland.  800 I spent working.  That left 900 hours to spend with friends, working on hobbies and completing my “one new thing a day for 100 days” new years res.  It is remarkable how much we can fit into a single day if we take a few minutes to plan.  Funny how, now at age 36, true to heart I take the words my father used to tell me as a child.  “We do not plan to fail, we fail to plan”.  Without planning, this project would not have been exciting – it would have been miserable and exhausting!  Looking back I am so happy to have done it.  Learning or doing something new each day is easy. If we care to look and listen, new opportunities and knowledge are all around us every day.

Aside from pure enjoyment, I was reminded that doing something new also:

1. Gives you something to talk about when conversing with others. 

2. Expands your mind.  We can become so patterned in one way of thinking, exposing ourselves to something new opens our minds. 

3. You learn more about yourself, what you like and what you dislike.  Your strengths and your weaknesses. 

4. Keeps you motivated.  New experiences = new excitement.  Who doesn’t look forward to a new horizon?! 

5. Fights off anxiety and depression.  When we keep ourselves engaged in the world around us, we are more apt to be in a happy mindset.

6. Is an opportunity to positively affect your environment and those around you. 

7. Empowers you.  New knowledge – whether it’s hands on, mental or social – gives you a healthy dose of confidence. 

8. Gives you a sense of achievement. This is a great thing.  Always! 

9. Stimulates your sense of creativity. 

10. Enriches and enhances your quality of life. 

11. Makes you GRATEFUL for this gift. This GIFT of life, of friends, of family.. 

My hope is that just one person stumbles across this blog and feels inspired to step out of their norm and then pays that inspiration forward.  In essence, I hope to create a tiny wave of GOOD energy.  Energy that is in mindful, gentle motion.  In my humble opinion, energy was not born to be stagnant 😉

**I came across an interesting article the other day re: Quantum Physics, if you are inclined to read a bit on “the new Science” scroll to the text after these pics..






The new science also accepts that the universe, including us, is made up of energy, not matter. This is not actually new – it was posited by Socrates in Europe way back when, and by the ancient rishis in India thousands of years before that.

Socrates said that energy, or soul, is separate from matter, and that the universe is made of energy – pure energy which was there before man and other material things like the earth came along.

However at the end of the seventeenth century Newtonian physics became the corner-stone of science, and it was based on the theory that there is only matter and nothing else – the whole universe is a machine, made of matter, and so are we. Medical science is still stuck in the Newtonian concept, even though the rest of science has now moved on to quantum physics.

Quantum physics says that as you go deeper and deeper into the workings of the atom, you see that there is nothing there – just energy waves. It says an atom is actually an invisible force field, a kind of miniature tornado, which emits waves of electrical energy.

Those energy waves can be measured and their effects seen, but they are not a material reality, they have no substance because they are… well, just electricity. So science now embraces the idea that the universe is made of energy.

We are of course made up of atoms. And atoms are continuously giving off, and absorbing, light and energy, all the time. It doesn’t stop even when we sleep. Every cell in the body has its atoms lined up in such a way that it has a negative and a positive voltage, inside and outside. So every cell in our body is a miniature battery. Each cell has 1.4 volts of energy – not much, but when you multiply by the number of cells in your body (50 trillion) you get a total voltage of 700 trillion volts of electricity in your body. Pretty strong stuff! This is what the Chinese call ‘chi’, and is also the energy used in hands on healing. It can even be measured outside the body for a certain radius, depending on the sophistication of the instrument. And guess which has the stronger electro-magnetic energy field – your head or your heart? For the answer, see the end of this article.

Now here is another interesting fact which relates to our lives… Each atom has its own distinct frequency, or vibration. And quantum physicists study the energetic effect when atoms collide, not their ‘matter’. What they see is that when two atomic waves meet, they either meet in synch, creating a constructive or harmonious effect, or they meet out of synch, creating a destructive effect in which they annul each other.

Dr Bruce Lipton, a former professor of medicine at Harvard University and author of the best-selling ‘Your mind is greater than your genes’, explains that if you drop two equal pebbles at exactly the same time into water, from the same height, they will both produce the same wave ripples. Ie, their waves will be in harmony with each other, and when their ripples meet the combined effect will be an amplification of the wavelength – in other words the merged waves become more powerful. But if you drop the pebbles from different heights or a millisecond apart, then when the resultant waves meet they will not be in harmony and will cancel each other out – the waves become weaker. You can try this out for yourself.

Exactly the same thing happens when atomic energy waves meet – they either have a constructive effect (become more powerful) or a destructive effect. Now, we are all created of atomic energy waves, and because it is impossible to separate waves, the new science says what Osho was saying over forty years ago: we are all connected – our waves are always meeting and getting entangled in each other. Dr Lipton says the result of such invisible meetings we call ‘good vibes’ and ‘bad vibes’, depending on whether the other waves we meet are in synch with us or out of synch. No wonder so many people were ‘magnetically attracted’ to Osho and felt peaceful and harmonious in his presence.

This means it is important to be aware of whether you are in an environment where you are getting entangled in destructive energy waves or constructive energy waves. The cells that make up our bodies know instinctively what is nourishing and what is toxic (Lipton demonstrates this with cells in petri dishes which move away from toxic stuff and towards nourishing stuff). And in fact all animals and plants communicate through vibrations, ie by sensing whether the energy is good for them or not. But we have been taught not to listen to our feelings but instead to what people say. So we are not trained to use our ability to sense energy, even though we have it just as all plants and animals have.

Many of the meditations Osho describes in The Book of Secrets work with the senses, and are a great way to get back in touch with your natural instincts so you can have more awareness of when you are in a nourishing or a draining situation.





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Day 99 – Open Water Swim with Katie

Today’s first for the ‘one new thing a day for 100 days’ new year’s resolution was a short (we’ll get back in there for a longer one!) ocean swim from New Brighton Beach with Katie Richie (added bonus getting to know Katie more.. check her out on youtube as a Vaulter, link is below).. water with friends is truly the best medicine.


check her out!

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